The focus

Mark McIlroy

29.12.2025



An abusive method sometimes used by some individuals, professionals, and society as a whole is to put 'the focus' on a person.

This means that accusations are directed towards a person, and they are treated as if they are less important than other people.

The expectation is that the person will fight back and defend themselves.

If this happens to you, defend yourself. Once you have done this do not fight back, cease communication and walk away.

If you continue dialogue the accusations will become more severe and vicious.

What is happening to you is completely wrong and the only solution is to cease contact with any person that does this to you.